Hi guys! This is my first blog post and I’m really excited about it even though it’s not the most exciting subject. To be honest I don’t like it at all, but even though I don’t like the subject at all I still wanted to write about it. So here we go! I’m sorry for my bad writing in English!!
So Jesy left Little Mix.. it kinda came unexpected but I somehow expected it to happen. I mean the last few weeks Jade, Perrie and Leigh-Anne were doing all the performances and interviews without Jesy and they seem to be pretty sad and down. I’m really upset about Jesy leaving Little Mix, but I also understand it. Being in a famous girlband means receiving hate and if you don’t exactly fit the beauty standard you’ll receive more hate for who you are, and that must be really though. People saying that you are less or that you don’t deserve anything. You can try to ignore it, but at some point it’s too much, and I think that Jesy knew that it was getting too much and that she needed to take some time for herself and that she needed to get to know herself again. Even though it’s really sad I think that it’s good that she finally put herself above everything else for once.
Jesy did what felt right for herself, I think that if she kept going on like this the world would lose a beautiful person. Maybe not now but definitely in a few years, I think Jesy felt that too and she decided to take a step back.
I saw many comments about Jesy “zayning” and got really upset because of those comments. Zayn left and chose for himself, he continued with his job while Jesy is in a complete other scenario. Zayn wanted to leave the band to start on his own, while I think that Jesy really didn’t want to leave. I think that this was the only option she had left, I think that if there would’ve been an other option she would’ve chosen that. Everytime I watch interviews or performances I can see that Jesy is truly happy, the problem is that that is only during the interview or performance, I can’t see how she’s feeling after the interview or performance.
To be honest I feel really bad for Jesy, I still don’t understand why especially she is getting all those hate, but sadly I can’t change anything. I know that she’s really grateful for all the mixers and other people who supported her during her journey together with Jade, Perrie and Leigh-Anne. And to be honest, I don’t think that we won’t hear anything from her, maybe not now but I think that she will let us know when she’s feeling a bit better.
I hope she’ll feel better soon, even if she’s not returning to the band she deserves it to feel good. Every human being deservers to be treated well and to feel good. She deserves the best.
I’m proud of Jesy, she finally chose for the most important person in her whole life, herself.
XA
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